Don't you think if I max out the ram at 4G this machine should run QI just fine
In addition to what Tom has said, in Qimage, Help, click Analyze Current Settings with the Shift key held down. That tells you the biggest file Qimage can handle on your system - it's a Windows thing realated to memory management. A bigger ram does not always help but as yours is only a nominal 1GB, some more is likely to help.
On my Vista laptop with 2GB ram, the Analyse Settings gives 1544 MB.
Your 24x28 print at 360ppi would give ((360(28+24) x(24x360))x3 = 261MB (the x3 is for R-G-B); at 720 ppi it gives 1045MB. Both of these should be well within Qimage's capability on Vista.
If Qimage did not have enough resources it would tell you before attempting to process.
From this, and you a haven't yet told us if Qimage finishes processing, I assume it did, the data is clogged between the pc and the printer.
I see from your latest post, you are doing the best thing: eliminating the network
Terry.